Sunday, January 3, 2010

Chicago New Years

The pictures were scarce, but the fun abounded.

Nicole and I enjoyed a long weekend in Chicago to celebrate the arrival of 2010. With a mixture of frozen exploration, brunches, shopping, talking and gathering over food and drink; we got a chance to experience Chicago from an entirely new perspective: the west.

The West Side of Chicago is foreign to me. I've spent years Metra'ing from Cumberland to the Loop and not stopping in between in order to get to the Brown and Red Lines. But the Blue Line neighborhoods hold a lot of charm and really allowed both of us to see the city from a different angle (literally).

Logan Square
This neighborhood has always been a bit of a mystery to me (well, not as much as Forest Park) but the diversity of commercial establishments made me enthralled enough to find out more. Enjoying lunches at upscale neighborhood brunch spots (Dunlays on the Square) and a quick walk afterward to an achingly-hip coffee house (New Wave Coffee for a quick internet browse and a latte makes for a pretty rockin' introduction. Without any time spent going out on the town in LS (obligations still center on Lincoln Park, unfortunately) I don't know that we got a solid read on the night life, but I think we're both excited to give it a shot.

Worth Returning For:
Lula Cafe: brunch is supposed to be amazing
The Whistler": hand made cocktails and live music

Wicker Park
I should have saved "achingly hip" for the descriptor of this neighborhood. With boutiques ranging from hand-made pseudo-goth shoe stores to curated resale to an Urban Outfitters, WP likely sustains brands like Super, and Casio's Old-Ass Watch Division. But damn it, I fell hook line and sinker. Though The Violet Hours's conspicuously inconspicuous facade beckoned and we heeded, it was to no avail. This windowless hipster haven was buttoned up early in the afternoon and wouldn't let us in. It's too hard to deny the intentional quirkiness of WP. It sort of lingers with you even after you've left. I'd steer clear if you pride yourself on how ironic you are. You'll be crushed. Unless of course, that's the irony you're looking for.

Worth Returning For:
Crocodile: bar and restaurant
Chaise Lounge: new American eatery


Both neighborhoods captured another facet of Chicago which keeps me wanting to explore my home metropolis with a partner in crime.



Other Places Visited
Gloria's Cafe: cuban and latin american litte cafe (BYOB)
Casbah Cafe: small middle-eastern restuarant (BYOB)

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Of Montreal: It's Always Hot Magic

Of Montreal: It’s Always Hot Magic

Story and photos: Nicole Buntsis and Brian Gloede

As I dodged second crowd surfer passing over my head on his way toward the stage, I thought to myself, “they could drag him onto the stage and attempt to perform sacrificial rituals on him and we would all just go with it.” Maybe the 24-ouncer was wearing off and the paranoia was setting in. Maybe it was the contact high from the 4 joints that the group of kids next to me smoked in the first 20 minutes. Maybe it was just the general vibe at Of Montreal’s performance.

When the band entered the stage donning garb looking like it was hand-sewn by elves and completed with accessories and make-up reminiscent of a first-class artist colony costume party, I knew a good show was in store. They warmed up with an instrumental number and transitioned to “Nonpareil of Flavor.”

Before too long I was anxiously darting my camera from the display to the stage trying to create reasoning for the 3 female priestesses saying prayers over a Hispanic choir boy, standing behind a cardinal with a phoenix tail perched on a, a… well, I would be a fool to attempt to decipher what. All the while “The Past is a Grotesque Animal” was playing. It must have been a give and take with depth levels of the animation that accompanied most songs, as it was much easier to find meaning in the animated seductive sailors groping defenseless women during “Id Engager.”


As the dancing started to heat up, a series of events, including an unnamed guest performing a cover of the David Bowie’s “Moonage Daydream” joined the stage. They released balloons into the horizon, threw confetti into the crowd and changed in and out of costumes. The crowd was on fire, screaming and dancing and singing along. As more people left, horrified by the oddities of the performance, the rest of us inched forward, excited at the prospect of seeing more.

All in all, there were appearances from gas-masked humans in red robes, amongst the fluid and casual persona of band members that gave the impression that the theatrics of the entire performance were based around a compilation of dreams and acid trips from each of the band members. Note: I have absolutely no reason to believe that any of Of Montreal drops acid and the fantastical nature of their performances isn’t entirely a product of futuristic genius, too complex for many of us to understand.

The foundation of the performance seemed to be stale dreams cloaked in double entendre, still lingering in flashes of memory, finally brought to life on a stage in front of thousands of people and the out came Kevin Barnes as his alter ego, Georgie Fruit.

I’m fairly certain he was Georgie at this time because he was no longer wearing a wild costume, but instead leggings, white boots and a top that looked like it was bought from Bebe 5 seasons ago.

Then finally it happened. I believe that they were crucifying one woman, possibly Nina Twin and a man dressed as a woman, both in underwear, trying to escape during “She’s a Rejecter”.

And they did escape. They broke away from the wood and shackles and rode into the crowd on a raft with a dolphin swimming at their side. See exhibit H. Thus, we knew the end was approaching. The fantastical, mind-twisting performance art of Of Montreal was reaching its dénouement. So, we shook our hips a little harder, threw our arms up a little higher and closed our eyes a little tighter, for no other reason than to imprint it all on our brains in the hope that if we ever go crazy, maybe we can turn it into stage art, too.

Nicole Buntsis is a Louisville native working as an ad exec, wishing she was a starving artist, living like a journalist, and acting like a pimptress... For this weekend anyway...

Monday, April 6, 2009

A Blank Page Stares Back

I can feel the gears crank below me. They ratchet forward, tooth by tooth. Advancing mechanically and with purpose.

A lot of balls are in the air.
- A move looms in July (lease is running out)
- A weekend visit is in the balance
- A career is waiting for direction
- A sketch of a vacation has emerged in our minds

As the seasons change with fits and starts (it's snowing as I write this) I'm interested to find myself right on the edge of a series of events--at the doorstep of a series of opportunities, some big, some small. I look at it akin to staring at a blank page when prompted to write.

The Move
My lease is coming to a close at the end of June. It's time to find a new place to lay my head somewhere in Cleveland. Vacancies abound in this city, but my budget and tastes seem to limit me to a small group of apartment complexes/neighborhoods. As a function of a brain dump, here's a list!
Tremont Lofts
Bridgeview Apartments
West Tech Lofts
Hyacinth Lofts

The Weekend
Long distance relationships can be a bear, that's for sure. Especially when they're just far enough to merit a flight over a 6-hour drive. And then you have the airlines which jack prices just when it's wildly inconvenient. But, you have to focus on the positive. For instance, there are some cities in the middle (namely Columbus and Cincinnati) littered with people we may not otherwise make the requisite time to see if we were closer geographically. So as a result we're keeping in contact with a broad swath of different people. Midwest networking and some great times so far. Columbus looks to be the front-runner this time about.

The Career
I've probably belabored that too much already. So we'll skip it this time around.

The Vacation
As we whirl about the midwest in efforts to catch a few hours together, we can't help but think that a proper vacation is in order. Puerto Rico, to be more specific. It's in the (early) planning stages, but there seems to be a wealth to do down there. Let's see if Travelzoo comes through this week! 5 to 7 days on a beach, hiking, kayaking and whatnot would likely be just the cure for what ails me. Well, that and a bunch of fruity drinks with umbrellas or any other wild accessories, like this one.

There, I filled up that blank page...Now on to the next one...

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Automating My Life


The past few weeks have been marked by my nearly constant efforts to bring technology back into my life in a meaningful way. This may seem like a strange process, but technology used to be a very large part of my life. I was consistently upgrading, downloading and beta testing every piece to tech I could get my hands on. Somewhere along the line I allowed the time I spent doing that to be taken over by minutiae.

I believe it was all thanks to the time I spent in Breckenridge and Boulder, Colorado with a group of techie friends. They own and operate all kinds of sweet businesses (list at the end of the entry). And their involvement with personal electronics, and abuse of the automation of daily tasks got me back into that mindset. Life doesn't have to sneak up on you--or, if it does, you should at the very least be able to get a SMS notification before it does.

So I found myself signing up for Twitter,Google's Latitude, Mint.com and other online tools. The interesting part of all of these services is that they solve simple problems with elegant solutions.

Take Mint.com for example. They developed a way to aggregate all of your financial information through relationships with nearly every depository and lending institution in the country. Unbelievable that I can go to one website (without entering ANY sizable amount of data) and see my net worth. MY NET WORTH! No accountants needed. Not 30 calls to brokers. No time spent on hold.

There are considerable hurdles to trusting a site like that with such sensitive information. But once you make the jump, it's such a wonderful tool!

These fundamental questions we ask hundreds of times a day "what are you doing?" "where are you?" "am I richer than my parents yet?" are continually being answered by innovation. What a great time we live in. It all has to do with the generativity of the 'net! Just ask Johnathan Zittrain!


The list of companies represented:
ShipCompliant - a POP software development company ensuring compliance of distillers, wineries and distributors with state laws
OneButton - a home theater installation company focusing on end user ease-of-use
VCWear - t-shirts for venture capitalists
DynamIT - web development and design firm based in Columbus, Ohio.

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Return from Abandonment

I know I've been completely absent. I know that, okay? I'm so aware I actually just keep this window open in my browser all the times - I just don't always act on its haunting presence. Also, I know that makes me the web's lamest blogger. I would take all that idle non-blogging time back if I could. I would, but my life has been all thinking, less acting lately, which doesn't make for interesting content either. I've just been thinking. You know when things fall into place and then they fall out and then you're just thinking about everything, but there's no inspiration to act, yet? That's my past 3+ months. Or, at least, I can admit the inspiration to act hits me when I'm driving somewhere, showering or eating lunch in my cube. Don't stop to re-read. You read it right. I have a cube. Well, I have part of a cube, anyway, but that doesn't mean I don't have a full(-time) job, because I DO.

Yes, I am employed in this crazy, effing economic situation. Not only am I employed, but I got the job I WANTED. In fact, the week of October 13th, just after the Jewish New Year (Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur, my exciting new beginning, see previous post) I had 3 job offers. Oh yes, friends, I decided just 2 weeks earlier to stay home instead of moving away to a bigger city with one of my best friends in search of "better opportunities" and got a job at the best advertising agency in Louisville as a reward. While I don't expect you'd be jealous of a young 20s girl, living at home in Louisville, Kentucky with her parents and grandmother in the suburbs post-college and working for hard for... umm.. some money as an Assistant Account Exec in an ad agency, I do expect you'd be happy for me. I just started a long uphill battle towards advertising glory and I already surpassed the biggest obstacle... breaking into the industry. Ta daaaaa...

Now that I've worked for over 3 months, I will be having my 3-month review. You might expect I'd write about it when it happens, but I'm more likely to hint, because transcribing every compliment my bosses say into a post would be fun to do and relive, but not fun to read. So, like with everything, I will gloat to my parents, Brian (the man I'm really trying to convince of my dedication to a long career) and a few friends. Now that I've broken into the industry, where do I see myself going next? These are things I have to consider before my review... long-term goals, areas to develop, etc. Other than that, I've been all about ideas. I've been trying to come up with ways to make my mediocre life more exciting. I've been considering which talents and interests I want to develop. I came up with one absolute conclusion and immediately realized it is the only one which is probably impossible. So, my dream job would be to direct music videos. The ironic part is I honestly don't even watch music videos that often, but whenever I hear a song I imagine what the video would look like if I art directed it. That would be a great gig. Of course, I'd love to direct commercials, as well. Though, there's less pressure in art directing music videos. If the commercial doesn't sell the product, you probably lose money and credibility. If the music video is only okay, you can come out with another single or people will still listen to your song, if it appeals to them. Plus, the amount of money some artists spend on videos is insane (see Britney's most recent "Circus" video. Wild). I want to be saying, "CUT! You're really not showing passion on your face when you dance with those clowns, Britney, and you're wasting my time. Do it over. I'm not putting shit out just because you're tired and sweating your make-up off."

Now you know my secret. Other than that, I've been struggling with finding a balance between egotism and insecurity in order to start working towards my other, more feasible dream job as a Copywriter. Let it be known, my blog posts shouldn't be a direct reflection of my persuasive and creative potential to write copy. You are here to listen. You're seeking this interruption from your daily life and I can take as much time as I want because this is ultimately for me (and Brian). Advertising is a completely different animal, in which you must be quick and compelling enough in the 1st 10th of a second so that your audience doesn't tune you out. I know what I'm up against. It will take time. I will need to ease my way in that direction, but I will persevere.
So, in order to quickly summarize what you missed in the past 3+ months of my abandonment, this blog contains a picture a little picture/word summary:
I started my job, October 21st.
Brian and I celebrated our 1-year anniversary on October 27th.
My sister had a baby (our family is seriously expanding) on November 23rd. See happy family of 3 (my sister Yana, Neal & Ethan) and the little Turkey pictured below - the new addition.
::family time::
::friend time:: over the holidays
Visited Brian a couple of times.
We spent New Year's in Chicago with our friends from college.
I celebrated a few family member's birthdays.
Celebrated my 3-month anniversary at work.
I returned from blog abandonment.
I am here to stay.

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Happy New Year!

A new year. Perhaps it's only a calendar holiday, but that certainly doesn't mean one should ignore the opportunity for reflection. 2008 was a wonderful year. I got a chance to grow as a person, graduate from college, meet some wonderful people, begin a new career and share some of the most memorable moments of my life with someone I care about dearly.

There are quite a few "year in review" posts out there on the internets, so I will just ignore that concept and provide utterly optimistic and unabashedly unrealistic look into the new year.

2009 will...

...be the year of artistic expression for us.
...be the year of rapid advancement at work.
...be the year of brash economic recovery (I said it'd be optimistic).
...be the year I finally take someone on a legitimate vacation.
...be the year I manage to balance the demands I have on myself.
...be the year of building a better relationship
...be the year of making the friends I know are out there, whom I haven't yet met.
...be the year I learn those things I've been meaning to learn.
...be the year of being independently together.
...effing rock.

Waiting for all that to come true will by occupied by reading and remembering some of the best of 2008.


First order of business: personal enrichment. BOOKS HERE I COME!

Sunday, December 14, 2008

I've said it before, "batten down the hatches."

The past few weeks have been tumultuous. The greater economic landscape is showing signs of significant duress, the US auto manufacturers are kowtowing to the impact of limited credit, and people across the country are finding excuses to talk haphazardly about the economy.

But the systematic, the structural, the undiversifiable is not the subject of this mental rumination. No, the impact of these things is what has hit home lately. Just as I celebrate the hurdle of obtaining my FINRA Series 7 license, others trip and hit the ground. A round of downsizing left a few friends without jobs this past week.

As a result professional mortality is brought to the forefront. So in times like this I do two things. The first is establishing a precocious professionalism--a middle-ground between a braggart and humility. My value contribution must be clear and undeniable. And somehow that has to happen with grace. Maybe a bit of flourish an a curtsy will allow me to pirouette and parry the layoffs.

The second coping mechanism is running each day through a juicer. A big one. Extracting all of the pleasure and joy, disappointment and adjustment, of each day. The little things. And, if any life advice can be extrapolated from Good Charlotte's undeniable gift for lyricism (and I firmly believe it can).

"The Little things
little things
Made who I am today"

So its upward and onward. The tenor has changed, and perhaps the duration. I'm experiencing the high beta I've always wanted. Collect and continue, we march on.

Let's hope the market improves.


Also; Nilsson - Spaceman might be a new favorite song of mine. Very Bowie.